So here we are at 39 weeks and 3 days, that is 4 days from my estimated due date of February 1, 2013. Here is an update from my last check up:
Again I measured small per the midwife, and I thought perhaps this is an indication that baby will come later, but as I've read and asked around, small babies can come early too.
2 CM Dilated
I am currently 2cm dilated! Yeah as this is progress, but I could remain 2 cm dilated for weeks. It really depends on when baby is ready at which that time, I'm sure I'll jump from 2 to 4 in no time. (second births I hear are alot faster). I was then offered a membrane sweep and I said yes, the light version if possible?
What is a Membrane Sweep?
"Membrane sweep", also known as membrane stripping, or "stretch and sweep" in Australia and the UK - during an internal examination, the midwife moves her finger around the cervix to stimulate and/or separate the membranes around the baby from the cervix. This causes a release of prostaglandins which can help to kick-start labor.
The "sweep" was done at 12pm, Jan 25th (48 hours ago). It was uncomfortable and I had some spotting immediately afterwards. At about 5pm that same day, it seemed that I lost part of or entire mucus plug, so I thought I was going into labor very soon. We immediately packed the car and made sure we were ready to boot it to the hospital if anything happened. Since then, nothing has happened and I'm back to waiting. She will come when she is ready.
Meeting our Douala - Forming a Birth Plan
The very next morning I met the same Douala that helped us with Lucas's delivery. She asked me about whether I had formed a birth plan or how I would envision our second birth? If I wrote a birth plan, it would be this and I'd slap it down on the admitting table before I give them my name:
She tried to introduce other methods of pain reduction, but honestly from what I remember last time, NOTHING worked for me except for the epidural. The gas mask sucked, because I could barely breath, I didn't want to be touched what so ever by anyone because I was in so much pain, so could not really enjoy or be alleviated by any massage techniques, and finally, my mind was so terrified of the next contraction, that I couldn't visualize jack or come up with any affirming thoughts.
If I were to describe what labor pains feel like it would be this:
Imagine, someone slowly inserting a 12" knife into your stomach and as the pain increases to a point where you think you can't take it any more, the person wrenches the knife causing unspeakable pain and then slowly pulls the knife back out. I didn't know when the next one would be as I had taken the verbena oil conjunction to induce labor for Lucas's birth and it sure worked. Check out my previous blog for more details on this. Anyhoo, I don't mean to scare any first time moms but that is my truth. The good news is did I live? Would I do it all over again? YES YES YES!!! Having a baby is the best thing that has ever happened to me and I have the privilege to birth another gift!
Thanks for Reading!
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